| For The Newcomer -- The Basics | ||||||
| Congratulations. It takes courage to seek help. We are here for you as others have been here for us. You may be wondering if this program is right for you. Listed below are links to some basic literature from the SCA main website to help you with this decision. Are You Sexually Compulsive? If you think you have a problem, the next step is to check out a couple meetings. Meetings Meetings are a safe place to express our feelings and listen to the experience of others. We keep meetings safe by practicing anonymity. Speaking at meetings, sometimes called “sharing,” can be an opportunity for you to talk about what is going on in your life or about your compulsive behavior. You’re not required to speak at any SCA meeting. Furthermore, you may pass if asked to participate in any reading aloud that may occur. More About Meetings How it Works SCA is a 12-Step recovery fellowship. The Twelve Steps are the backbone of SCA. They outline a simple program of action that results in recovery from the agony of our sexual addiction. All other tools of recovery operate in support of “working the Steps.” How the Program Works Fellowship Isolation is a characteristic of our disease. We encourage you to introduce yourself to others at meetings if possible. Talking with others is a good way to get a clear idea of how the program works. And remember, our program is one of suggestions -- not rules. Each member is invited to "take what you like and leave the rest." This means that you are free to use the tools and suggestions from SCA that work best for you. Adapted from the pamphlet For the Newcomer, copyright 1999 SCA International Service Organization |
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